Assuming that husband and wife don't each go to their respective solicitors
and say, "This is what we have agreed, now please draw it up as
a legally binding and final agreement," (which does sometimes happen
and isn't necessarily to be discouraged) a solicitor who is asked to
advise on ancillary relief will first of all want to know exactly what
the assets of the marriage are and the respective incomes or earning
capacities of the parties together with various other details. His client
will very often be able to provide much of this information but much
of it may also only be known to the other spouse. The solicitor will,
therefore, write to the spouse (or, more likely, his or her solicitor)
and ask for "full and frank disclosure" of that party's financial
position.
It is important to understand that such "full and frank disclosure"
is necessary if any agreement is to be fully binding. If it were subsequently
to come to light that one of the parties had significantly misrepresented
his or her financial position in coming to the agreement then such an
agreement could be set aside and this would be the case even if it had
been turned into a "consent order" by the courts. Full and
frank disclosure is a necessary precondition of any agreement which
is intended to be binding and so a solicitor will ask for this from
the other side.
It may be that after each side has made full and frank disclosure in
correspondence in this way (and, probably, provided details of bank
accounts, pay slips etc) it will then be possible to reach agreement
fairly quickly and move on to drawing up the agreement in legal terms.
Unfortunately, this is uncommon for two main reasons:-
- One of the spouses often believes that there are other assets which
have not been disclosed. (This is sufficiently common a phenomenon
to have received a name - "the crock of gold phenomenon").
- The solicitor for one or other spouse (or possibly both) wants to
raise various queries about the information disclosed.
One needs to be particularly wary of both these situations because
the degree of suspicion can soon escalate and so can the correspondence
that goes with it. Although it is difficult for a client to be anything
other than subjective about this one should always try and stand back
and ask oneself how far one wants to go in pursuing financial information
and/or what the chances of finding a "crock of gold" actually
are. There is also the possibility, of course, that although "full
and frank disclosure" is made on both sides it is not possible
to reach agreement for one reason or another.
It is always worth trying to reach agreement amicably and the parties
should remember that not everything needs to be done through their solicitors.
Very often a conversation between themselves can break a log jam. Conducting
all negotiations through solicitors is normally a bad idea unless it
is absolutely unavoidable (as it sometimes is). Some behind the scenes
discussion between the parties is often helpful although, of course,
it depends on the relationship and the degree of bitterness etc. Sometimes
it just isn't possible.
If correspondence between solicitors does not result in agreement within
a relatively short time it is probably best to make an early application
to the court to resolve the matter. Although one hears horror stories
of "X's" divorce taking "years" (and by "divorce"
is normally meant the ancillary relief proceedings) there is no reason
why this should be the case in the vast majority of instances. The reason
it sometimes happens is that correspondence between solicitors has continued
for far too long. If such correspondence does not look like being productive
of an early result it is almost always best to apply to the court because
the court will impose a timetable on the whole proceeding.
If you wish to know more about how this court process works in practice
please continue.
Please contact David
Terry at David_Terry@dterry.demon.co.uk if you need specific advice.
Ancillary relief is often the most contentious part of any divorce proceeding.
If there is any dispute in a divorce it is in this area that it is likely
to be found and if there are any significant assets involved the advice
of a solicitor is usually advisable.